It's Christmas Eve! And my first one away from our safe haven of family in South Carolina. Other than when I was on my mission, this is my first Christmas away from "home", so to speak. Thank goodness Mom's coming to visit on Friday - it makes it a lot easier for me. We are terribly homesick this year. However, we are keeping busy and finding other things to enjoy, so I'm not trying to throw a pity-party.
A thought has been on my mind about Traditions. Because Ben and I have been around our families, we've been participating in those family traditions for all these years of our marriage. Now that we're in OK, we're discovering just how many traditions we want to keep. For example, in our family growing up we always opened up one gift of Christmas Eve. Since we've been married, we've also spent every Christmas Eve with my family. Since we were opening gifts there, I figured that was keeping with our tradition. The other day Ben and I had a conversation that went like this:
Anita: "So, we are opening one gift on Christmas Eve, right?"
Ben: "We are?"
Anita: "It's a tradition."
Ben: "Since when?"
Anita: "Well. we've always done it, but I guess at my mom's!"
Ben: "Honey, if we open on Christmas Eve, I won't have anything to open on Christmas - I've only got 2 things under the tree."
Welcome to a small family where we each get each other only one thing! And Ben and I didn't get each other gifts this Christmas - we bought a home gym instead so we can work out in our garage. (Ben actually has 3 things under the tree, though.) I guess this is a tradition that we won't keep up our here. Or rather, a tradition we won't start on our own. I guess that tradition works best in a family of 6 kids...
And dinner - Christmas dinner. I'm sorry, but I'm not cooking a bunch of stuff on my own for kids who won't eat it. We're having fajitas! With red and green peppers, of course. And I must have a pumpkin pie, but I'll make something else, too. Chocolaty. And they DID request homemade cinnamon rolls for breakfast, so I'll have fresh bread. Maybe that will be my supper... And if we do the same thing again next year, does that start a tradition for us?
There is one tradition I started this year. We have a beautiful red and gold star box under the tree. Every day leading up to Christmas we give Jesus a present by doing service for someone, or being especially obedient, or something like that. We have to fill out one slip a day with what our gift of Jesus was, and put it in the box. Christmas morning we're going to open the box and read all the slips before we open our own gifts.
So tell me, all of you who have moved away - what traditions have you started?